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I'm wanting something that is very user friendly and excellent in organizing sounds and customizimg.I've seen some like motu bpm, battery 3 and playa but I would like peoples opinion.

It may or may not fit exactly what you're looking for, but I would give Image-Line's Drumaxx plugin a try. It's actually based on physical modeling synthesis and you can dial in some very good drum tones with some time spent learning how to program it.
What I like to do is create sounds in Drumaxx then bounce them to wav files to use in other plugins or apply further processing.